Monday, November 12, 2007
Penis size
I'm getting a lot of spam recently that promises a bigger dick. Some of it is quite crude and to the point in the subject line. "She'll moan with pleasure with your new bigger dick in her twat." All of which has me thinking about penis size today.
When I was younger, my older sister used to tell her friends I was huge -- partly because I used to fall out of my swim trunks at home a lot, partly because she was probably fooled by its showing against my then skinny little body, partly because she probably didn't know any better. It gave me a lot of confidence but it wasn't really true, or at least it didn't turn out to be true as an adult. I'm average at best. Flaccid, it can be tiny, almost hiding, or it can hang low like there's a lot of promise there. But when it's erect, it's the standard 6 inches.
But maybe because I grew up confident in it, I haven't ever worried about it. I've never gotten gasps or ridicule from it in bed, and performance is more the thing, how long I'm going to last. Even that I haven't worried about too much -- some days it's a long time, some days I cum somewhat quick, but it's never something to get hung up. I guess I'm lucky that I haven't gotten hung up on one of those.
I have no doubt that a woman finds a bigger dick intrinsically more satisfying. Not knowing what the experience is like, I still have to think in some way it's better to be filled more -- at least to a point. I do have a friend who complained about a former boyfriend's very small -- like 4 inches, she claimed -- dick, like it didn't feel like she had anything inside her. On the other end, I wonder if there's a point where it's too big. I mean, women can accommodate children coming through, but that doesn't mean it's comfortable.
And a bigger dick may be more visually satisfying as well, but again, to what point? Women aren't supposed to be as visually stimulated as men, and they certainly aren't looking for you to flash your cock like men would love to see women flash their breasts. And truthfully, how much is there to look at, anyway? It's kind of an awkward organ, all function and lacking the grace of a woman's body. I'm certain there's a curiousity factor and some interest beyond that, but how much?
In the end, though, even if a bigger dick is better to behold and fills a woman up somewhat better, it has nothing to do with her orgasm, or next to nothing. That's all about clitoral stimulation and a bigger dick holds no advantage there.
As a friend used to say, "It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean." But as another friend would add on, "Yeah, but you wouldn't go into the ocean with a little dingy, either."
When I was younger, my older sister used to tell her friends I was huge -- partly because I used to fall out of my swim trunks at home a lot, partly because she was probably fooled by its showing against my then skinny little body, partly because she probably didn't know any better. It gave me a lot of confidence but it wasn't really true, or at least it didn't turn out to be true as an adult. I'm average at best. Flaccid, it can be tiny, almost hiding, or it can hang low like there's a lot of promise there. But when it's erect, it's the standard 6 inches.
But maybe because I grew up confident in it, I haven't ever worried about it. I've never gotten gasps or ridicule from it in bed, and performance is more the thing, how long I'm going to last. Even that I haven't worried about too much -- some days it's a long time, some days I cum somewhat quick, but it's never something to get hung up. I guess I'm lucky that I haven't gotten hung up on one of those.
I have no doubt that a woman finds a bigger dick intrinsically more satisfying. Not knowing what the experience is like, I still have to think in some way it's better to be filled more -- at least to a point. I do have a friend who complained about a former boyfriend's very small -- like 4 inches, she claimed -- dick, like it didn't feel like she had anything inside her. On the other end, I wonder if there's a point where it's too big. I mean, women can accommodate children coming through, but that doesn't mean it's comfortable.
And a bigger dick may be more visually satisfying as well, but again, to what point? Women aren't supposed to be as visually stimulated as men, and they certainly aren't looking for you to flash your cock like men would love to see women flash their breasts. And truthfully, how much is there to look at, anyway? It's kind of an awkward organ, all function and lacking the grace of a woman's body. I'm certain there's a curiousity factor and some interest beyond that, but how much?
In the end, though, even if a bigger dick is better to behold and fills a woman up somewhat better, it has nothing to do with her orgasm, or next to nothing. That's all about clitoral stimulation and a bigger dick holds no advantage there.
As a friend used to say, "It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean." But as another friend would add on, "Yeah, but you wouldn't go into the ocean with a little dingy, either."
